Realize when you start to care about others more than yourself. That’s when you lose track of everything and it doesn’t feel the same anymore. The real focus should be on you and no one else because everyone doesn’t always care about you.
Rape isn’t about uncontrollable sexual desire. You only have to listen in on a Call of Duty game to see that. When that kid crows, “I raped you!”, he’s not calling the other guy sexy; he’s saying he defeated him, dominated him, humiliated him. That’s what rape is about, and that should scare you.